For the benefit of those who haven't read
Things you have to learn
1. Learn to be happy on your own
2. Love yourself
3. Not easy to do both, but just keep trying even if it takes all your life

Are you free? 
"Those chains around you — can you see them? And do you know what they are made of? Or do you just pretend that you can’t hear their little jingle-jangle when you walk? You’ll say, “Oh, it just wasn’t the right time, I’ll be fine,” but we can see you frantically looking for the key out of the corner of your eyes. You know that it’s somewhere, but perhaps part of you doesn’t want to know what will happen if you find it."

Oh gosh so true.